Nicole Young’s Shocking Comment About Chrishell Stause’s Late Parents Stuns Selling Sunset Fans
Selling Sunset Season 9 turned explosive when Nicole Young referenced Chrishell Stause’s deceased parents during a heated dinner argument, leaving castmates and viewers outraged.

Nicole Young and Chrishell Stause in a tense Season 9 moment that left the Selling Sunset cast speechless. Courtesy of Netflix and Selling Sunset
The series’ signature mix of luxury, drama, and high emotion was reinvigorated by season nine of Selling Sunset, which debuted on October 29th. What is the central theme of early episodes? Nicole Young and Chrishell Stause had a heated dinner confrontation that quickly turned into one of the show’s most shocking moments.
Nicole took things too far during a tense conversation about gossip and alleged betrayal by bringing up Chrishell’s deceased parents in response to a drug-use accusation. The cast and millions of viewers worldwide were stunned by her words, ‘Honey, you’re confusing me with your parents, okay?’.
Selling Sunset is back and you will not believe how they kick off the season. pic.twitter.com/PsCWh4GUXX
— Netflix (@netflix) October 29, 2025
How It All Started: The Accusations and Gossip
The feud began with accusations that Nicole was spreading rumors about Emma Hernan and a married man. Chrishell challenged Nicole, accusing her of dishonesty and divisive gossip while defending Emma. Nicole claimed to be unfairly targeted, asserting that her remarks were misunderstood.
“I am truly deeply sorry for any and all the repercussions …. but this is what you are refusing to acknowledge, I didn’t make up this information,” Young continued, as Emma called her an “awful person” and, in a confessional, a “nasty evil woman.” The lunch meetup ended there, with the two at an impasse.
Emma Hernan’s Involvement in the Drama
Emma, who has been a frequent source of conflict among her castmates, found herself once more the center of a storm she didn’t initiate. Her rumored relationship with a married man caused tension to spiral out of control, resulting in the chaos that defined this dinner showdown.
The Comment That Crossed the Line
As tensions boiled over, Chrishell accused Nicole of using substances, a charge Nicole firmly denied. The comment made on national television crossed a moral boundary. Nicole snapped, “You’re confusing me with your parents.”
Cast Reaction to Nicole’s Words
The response came right away. As the co-stars reminded Nicole that Chrishell’s parents had both passed away, Nicole was filled with shocked gasps on the table. Nicole felt isolated and defensive in the face of the palpable emotional weight of that reminder. After the confrontation, the production team removed Nicole from the office.
Amanza Smith made it very clear that Nicole’s statement was in poor taste, emphasizing that Chrishell’s parents are dead.
Emma Hernan and Mary Fitzgerald also attempted to defuse the situation, but several cast members, especially Amanza and Emma, directed intense criticism at Nicole.
Nicole’s isolation and defensiveness were caused by the heavy emotional atmosphere. She tried to defend herself but was left without the group’s support.
Chrishell Stause’s Emotional Response
Chrishell’s grace under pressure was recognized, and she later reflected on the incident, describing how painful Nicole’s comment truly was. She said during episode three, “The way she brought up that my parents had done drugs made it sound like they died from drugs.”
In a recent interview with US Weekly, Stause said, “I would gladly free base off my desk if I never had to talk about this again.”
“I want to dedicate this season to my parents. Because of what was said, they are brought up in every interview that I do. They were such badasses, and would be very proud of me. (Yes even after this dinner).”
Remembering Chrishell’s Parents: Jeff and Ranae
Jeff, Chrishell’s father, succumbed to lung cancer in 2019, and Ranae, her mother, succumbed to the same illness in 2020. Although there have been struggles in the past, neither parent lost their life due to drug use. On Instagram, the reality star has shared touching tributes that celebrate their love, creativity, and the unconventional yet warm family she was raised in.
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The Aftermath: Nicole’s Removal from the Office
Nicole’s ‘below the belt’ remark didn’t just spark outrage — it led to real consequences. The Oppenheim Group has made the decision to temporarily take her out of the office because of workplace tension and emotional distress among staff members.
Nicole and Chrishell’s issues forced Selling Sunset to pause filming before the season premiered, as confirmed by Us Weekly.
“I had a call with production two days ago during which they told me I have absolutely not been fired from the cast but they chose to pause my filming schedule until next week in order to protect me from situations on set that had become very contentious,” Nicole told Us in a statement in January. “I’m still debating whether or not I want to continue filming in this kind of environment, especially with so many infuriating double standards.”
Nicole added: “Selling Sunset has been a great opportunity and a wild ride, but it is not my life or identity. I have a big, beautiful life outside of the show…and thankfully in the real world, my life and personality can’t be edited or misconstrued to portray me negatively to fit into a produced storyline.”
Netflix Fans’ Backlash Online
The Broader Context: Reality TV and Personal Boundaries
This controversy has reignited a longstanding question: how far is too far, even though reality television thrives on conflict.
When Real Emotions Meet Reality Cameras
Shows such as Selling Sunset blur the distinction between authenticity and entertainment. The human cost cannot be ignored when deeply personal grief becomes a part of the storyline. Both producers and cast members are responsible for balancing storytelling and sensitivity.
Chrishell Stause’s Journey Through Loss and Resilience
Chrishell has experienced significant personal loss, yet her rise in both her career and confidence is undeniable. Her pain has turned into a purpose, and she is advocating for mental health awareness and using her platform to motivate others to navigate grief.
From “Days of Our Lives” to “Selling Sunset”
Chrishell honed her emotional intelligence and resilience while starring in Days of Our Lives before selling Sunset. Her success as a real estate agent, actress, and advocate is based on that same strength.
Nicole Young’s Reputation and Public Perception
There is still a chance of a redemption arc. A public apology, sincere accountability, and personal growth could restore some goodwill, but for many fans, the damage may already be done.
Can Nicole Redeem Herself?
Young was recently seen house shopping in Nashville and might be looking to start over and rebuild her reputation in Tennessee.
@itsnicoleyoung Nashville real estate tour anyone?! Come home shopping with me! #musiccity #nashville #realestate ♬ BORN FOR THIS – Foxxi
Lessons from the Conflict
Reality TV can be a mirror of human emotion when it’s done right. When storylines intersect with personal trauma, accountability and empathy must be the driving forces.
The Importance of Respecting Grief on Public Platforms
Grief is a deeply personal experience, unlike a storyline. Chrishell’s experience highlights the need for reality shows to establish stronger boundaries when dealing with sensitive topics like family loss and addiction.
FAQs
1. What did Nicole Young say to Chrishell Stause? Nicole’s insensitive comment about Chrishell’s deceased parents during a heated argument shocked everyone, including herself.
2. How did Chrishell Stause’s parents die? Nicole’s comment implied that both died of lung cancer, not drug use.
3. Was Nicole Young punished by the Oppenheim Group? Due to the incident’s emotional impact, Nicole was temporarily removed from the office.
4. What has Chrishell said about the situation since then? Chrishell has admitted to being hurt, but she is still dedicated to positivity and professional advancement.
5. Will Nicole appear in the rest of Season 9? As of now, she appears in later episodes, but her storyline remains controversial.
6. Has Nicole apologized publicly? Nicole’s lack of a public apology at this time has caused ongoing discussion among fans.
Conclusion
The Selling Sunset Season 9 confrontation between Nicole Young and Chrishell Stause reminds viewers of the delicate balance between authenticity and sensitivity in reality TV. Drama can boost ratings, but compassion should not be sacrificed for entertainment. Chrishell continues her parents’ legacy, not through controversies, but through her resilience and grace.
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